Martyrdom Avoidance

Tactics of Organizational PoliticsCareers and TalentA borderline tactic

Credible critics who are leaving get generous severance with standard, lawful non-disparagement terms, so the exit is dignified and does not become a rallying point for others.

Borderline: whether this move is justified depends on the situation, and only the person in it can judge.

An example

An activist fund was pushing a building-products company to break itself up, and the president of the residential division had told the chief executive in writing that the breakup case was stronger than management admitted. The chief executive decided the division needed a different leader before the investor meeting. He offered the president two years of salary, accelerated vesting, extended health coverage, outplacement, a neutral reference, and standard mutual non-disparagement terms with carve-outs for everything the law protects. Counsel gave him the full review period. The chief executive also asked him to present his breakup analysis to the board's strategy committee before he left, which he did. He signed in January. The press release said he was leaving to pursue other opportunities, and both men said nothing further in public.

Why it works

All four ways operate. Leaving looks better because the package is set well above what the law requires. Leaving is easy: resignation language, a drafted announcement that protects the person's reputation, benefits processed at once. Resisting looks worse, because the confidentiality terms remove what a martyr needs, the platform to tell the story, and the payout makes continued grievance read as bad faith. Refusing is costly: the package disappears and a contested exit follows. It is aimed as much at the people watching as at the person leaving. Four conditions matter: enforceable terms, a package worth more than a lawsuit, a deadline for signing, and no way to compare packages.

The thinking behind it

Erving Goffman On Cooling the Mark Out: Some Aspects of Adaptation to Failure (1952), Goffman's essay on helping people accept the loss of a role without making trouble, describes consolation that lets the loser save face. A generous package, a neutral reference, and a resignation announcement are that consolation. They let the departing critic leave without becoming a cause, which is what the move is for.

Ronald H. Coase Coase's The Problem of Social Cost (1960) argues that if bargaining were free, parties would reach the efficient outcome however rights were assigned, and that because bargaining is costly, who holds the rights and what negotiation costs decide what happens. A severance agreement is that bargain made explicit: the company pays more than a lawsuit would yield, and the exit is settled privately on terms both sides accept.

When it fits

Exits that could become symbols are where it applies: you have decided a credible critic has to leave, others are watching, and you have budget for a package above what the law requires. You need counsel, an agreed public account, and a board that has heard the critic's substance.

How to use it well

Separate the decision from the silence.

  • Make the package generous by the person's measure: salary, vesting, benefits, outplacement, a neutral reference.
  • Keep confidentiality and non-disparagement terms standard, mutual, and within the law, with the legal carve-outs stated.
  • Give the full review period and encourage independent counsel.
  • Let the person put their objection on the record with the board before they go.

Agree on the public account together, and keep it short and true. Then make sure someone answers the objection on its merits, so the payment is never the only response it gets.

What it costs and where it backfires

Colleagues may read the payout as a deal and stop listening to the objection, which can bury a point the company needed to hear. Generous packages also set expectations for the next exit. The law and the facts set the limit. Terms that try to stop someone reporting misconduct, a package withdrawn as a threat to force a signature, or an announcement that misstates why the person left turn it into concealment or intimidation.

When it is used on you

Leaving on generous terms, use the full review window and your own counsel, check which silence terms the law no longer allows, compare packages if you can, and put your objection in writing to the people who need it before you sign. Colleagues who are watching can keep asking what the departing person objected to.

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